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anonymous
writes:I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months last week because I have strong feelings for one of my closest friends, and I felt that all he wanted was sex after I regretably lost my virginity to him in May. She is also a girl, and is only 2 months younger than me. I know that i'm only 15, and that my hormones are all over the place right now, but I really do love her. She means everything to me and i'd do anything for her.We hold hands sometimes in public, call eachother babe, she puts her arm around me almost everyday. I just don't think she's interested in me though, because whenever we go out she's always like "ooh that boy was fit" and I agree if he is, but deep down I only have eyes for her.So my question is, how do I let her know how I feel without ruining our friendship or making it blantantly obvious? Unless that's the best way to do it (making it obvious).Any advice from anyone going through something similar?Thanks in advance.x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 June 2008):
I don't think there is any risk free way you can do this.
You either take a chance and tell her, and risk rejection and losing her, OR you keep quiet and suffer in silence.
Neither is great so I'm not going to advise you either way to be honest.
Personally I'd carry on as I was in your situation but then I'm a complete chicken about these things so that's just me.
This isn't the most helpful answer in the world but as you say you are young, and she sounds like a really good friend to risk losing.
Good Luck!! xx
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