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writes:I've been with my g/f for 4 years now and shes perfect, I love her. Its her annoying overly protective brother. He never lets me be alone with her at her house.I've spoken to my g/f about it and she had a talk with her brother about it and after their talk he has gotten more protective. Like 2 days ago I kissed her at her door and he came out dragged her in and told me to stay away from her, but my girlfriend and I dont want to break up. Reply to this Question
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reader, jalmetha  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 Well I hope he is true to his word and gives you both some space. but should he start up again let him know that as her brother you expect him to protect her. And you have been her boyfriend for 4 years and consider yourself her protector too. That it is the furthest thing from your mind to hurt her. But his interfering with your relationship is hurting her and this is where you will to step in as her protector and you respectfully ask him to back off. If that dosn't work, i'm not sure what you can do.
I hope it everyting goes well for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer parents have already seen us kiss and their fine because they know i love her more than anything and would do anything for her and i would never break up with her.
i took your advice an asked im what his problem was with me dating his sister and i also told him im in love with her.He said he would back of a bit but still be protective of her.
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reader, jalmetha +, writes (9 June 2009):
When you kiss her, are her parents around? some find it disrespectful if you show affection in front of their parents or in front of them for that matter. you need to have a talk with her bro. flat out ask him why is he so againist you. Tell him that you love his sister and that your intentions with her are on the up and up. Then ask what you can do to gain his trust because you two love one another have no plans of breaking up.
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