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writes:I am very fond of my step-aunt who is 18 years older than me and connect with her intellectually, emotionally and perhaps even spiritually. She has been married for a long time but we have fallen deeply in love with each other and want to marry eachother. One the one hand, I know its morally wrong but on the other, if I dont marry her, she says her life is over, and I cant let that happen, as I love her too deeply in every way. I dont feel the age difference as being of any hindrance to me. What should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Woah! She's a relative AND she's married.
She's emotionally blackmailing you into getting what she wants with all the " My life is over if you don't marry me"
You KNOW it can't happen. It would break up your family should they find out - This is deceit. If you care about them enough you'll stop this now.
Age is only a number, yes, that's true. BUT she's you're relative and she's married.
If she really loves you and not your uncle, wouldn't she have done something about it by now?? And even if she did leave him for you, what are you gonna do then? How are your family gonna feel and react??? Think about it.
Absolutly no good can come out of this. I hope you realise this sooner or later.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens.
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reader, Troys-Sweetie +, writes (29 October 2007):
 age is just a number. you are an adult so there should be nothing wrong with it if you love each other.
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