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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dont knw how to get this out...i was in relationship with a guy since 6yrs until v broke up last month...it was me who liked him,drew closer to him,known him n made a love proposal but later i realised that he loves me more than i do..he has been a sweetheart and was d first person always ther 4 me wen i needed one... But then i think therz someth wrong wid me...i always questioned him of his love towards me,abused him psychologically,paranoid abt his relationship with others(girls)..He has been convincing me that i was d love f his life for longtime but i didn't buy it...He has done a lot to me...i cant even imagine my ruthless behaviour towards him....but still he wants me in his life..Problem remains that i still LOVE him and i know he loves me too but i cant accept it...i dont undstnd what exactly is stoppin me..i think about him day in and out but wen v actually catch up on phone i go crazy and coerce him to accept that he doesn't love me anymore......poor sweetheart still he wants me to b an integral part f his life...doesn't take any of his decisions without knowing how felt about it.....He is gonna ruin his life if i back out n i dont want it to happen but i cant stay with him either...May me i forgot to mention it dat he is very very possessive over me.........wat do i do???
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 You will never be happy with this guy or anyone else until you find out why you treated him that way and refused to believe that he loved you. For some reason you seem to think you don't deserve to be loved and something or someone had to happen to make you feel that way. Please seek professional help with a doctor or therapist.
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