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*ilveknifex
writes:So im in a situation with this girl i love, she got out of a 3 year relationship over summer, and about 6 months later i started talking to her, ( i used to go out with her but we broke up since i went to high school) anyways, so when we started talking we talked, figured we liked each other and started dating again, but after about a month, her past realtionship is surfacing, she says shes still in love with him , she doesnt think of him , which is understandable because love is a strong emotion, she told me she doesnt wanne hurt me if anything goes, wrong, we talked about this last night but she says shes doesnt think shes ready to be in another realtionship because shes not over her ex, but my friends have told me if i take it slow if we have trust tell each other everything and i have faith, and pateience that i can all work out, she has told me she wants this to work, we both want it to work out, she says she does like me, and she knows how much i care for her, but her love for her ex is defiantly still in the way, i dont want to leave this girl, because i would feel as if i was giving up and im not going to do that, what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): I think you need to answer to yourself how would you feel about being in a relationship knowing your partner doesnt love you? it takes time to fall out of love with someone especially if she was with him a long time, personnally i would suggest giving her some time to recover and decide what she feels, you could keep seeing her but i dont think it should be a serious relationship until she can say she has no feelings for her ex. hope this helps you.
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