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writes:My GF of 4 years (some good some bad times) isn't sure about how she feels about me. She said she was sure last year, but now she doens't know. I am unsure as what to do. I am late 30's she's mid 20's. We do enjoy being together, and she still loves me. She has been very busy in her life as of late, and I have been troubled at work, and have been sort of an emotional baby around her...I know this has prompted her to freak out a bit. How do I regain my ground with her? People say "just relax, she'll figure it out, back off and give her space. I can do this, and it seems the best advice. Is this the best way? I am supportive of her feelings, and I told her I understand her feelings. Any thoughts? I really do love her, and don't want to get hurt by denying reality...
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reader, _flicky  +, writes (23 December 2006):
 Sounds like you're both stressed out, and she can't cope with all your worries as well as her own. Those other people are right: relax, leave her be for a while. You don't have to leave her alone completely. Talk to her, laugh with her. Relationships aren't all about the romantic side - you have to be good friends, too.
Give her time. =)
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