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writes:i don't know whats come over me lately but i'm just so down about everything and the one thing thats worrying me most is that i seem to have lost all interest in my relationship of three years. We have a holiday booked for later this year and i'm worried we won't make it that far and it will be a big waste of money. I think its down to losing my grandad a few weeks ago. We were close and i haven't felt myself since. I'm tired all the time, i eat alot of junk, i have no interest in sex and my boyfriend just pisses me off whatever he does. I do love him but i just can't stand him sometimes and i don't know why. Its goin to drive us apart and i'm scared. I'm pushing him away. On top of that i just feel so down all the time. About work, my friends, going out. Someone give me some advice what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): well i had the same problem when i lost my grandad, i lost all interest in sex with my girlfriend, drank a hell of alot and started smoking the waccy stuff again after nearly 3 straight years..
Loss of loved ones does strange things to you.
i spent every other night round my grandads house or down pub with him and stuff, you just have to explain that its got you down a lot and you need him to be your best friend as well as your partner right now, he'll understand and seriously after a while your head will start clearing up, mine did after a few months and i'm totally clean now and everything, other than i never managed to get off ciggarettes but could be far worst, you just have to explain and don't do silly stuff like i did, it will get better i promise.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 What you are feeling is all pretty normal. Tell your BF how you feel about losing your grandad and tell him you don't feel yourself. Your BF will never be able to help you with this if you don't confide in him.
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reader, Chyeah  +, writes (26 March 2010):
I think its time for a break, just be honest with him about how you lost your grandad, how you're feeling about everything. But oviously hes gonna go nuts when he hears the word "break" because every guy/girl sometimes go nuts even I to be honest.
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