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I like watching women in porn but in reality I don't want to touch one. What is that about?

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Question - (24 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I like watching women stripping porn, watching big fake boobs turn me on (like a fetish or somethinng) but in my reality when girls offer to kiss me i get turned off and im like no i dont wana do that, is this a weird fantasy? i love men, wana touch, hold, talk intimately with a mann but when it comes to porn i really like watching women strip, the real fake kinds that are moving all feminine. this bothers me. I enjoy watching hard men as well and gay porn (2 meN) but women are so sensual and beautiful, but when it comes to touching one, i dont wana. what does this meann? why dont i wana touch them? i have no desire to b intimate with one, it grosses me out.

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2011):

unlike men

many hetrosexual women like to watch lesbian porn

and even gay (male on male) porn tough they are completely hetrosexual so no worries

Good Luck

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (25 May 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntYou and a LOT of other women, including this poster. Not exactly unusual. Not even a good indicator of whether you are bi-curious. Continue to enjoy what you enjoy without spending too much time thinking about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011):

I'm with you.

I'd much rather watch a naked woman (or women).

Honestly, this is common. Many women find other women erotic and arousing. I suspect many men do as well, although I don't find that to be the case with me, and men probably don't admit it because of homophobia.

In fact, studies have shown that many people who are homophobic get aroused by homosexual imagery, where as those who aren't don't.

The fact that you get aroused doesn't make you homophobic, it makes you "normal". Don't be afraid of it, it won't hurt you and doesn't mean you are lesbian.

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