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writes: im having a problem with my ex-girlfriend. the problem ive been with her 2 times and they only lasted no longer then 3 weeks. ive been getting to know her really really good, i guess she thinks as me as a really really good friend, well ive like her again, and im thinking of asking her if she wants to be my girlfriend. but like i have problems talking to her, i dont know what to talk to her about. and also i think she knows i like her but she doesnt act like it, she acts like nothing is going on. so can anyone help me?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (13 January 2006):
 Maybe though she is waiting for you to make the first move? That seems to me to be what you are intimating by saying she acts like she wants you to talk to her. Her acting in this way towards you may not be a bad sign at all, it may be a sign that she feels something too. It could also be a good thing that she acts differently from your friends cause ultimately you want her as a lover i am assuming. Have you got anything to lose by finding out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i know i like her alot,but i just feel like she acts really weird, like she wants me to start talking to her,and i know she knows that i like her, but she doesnt act like my other friends that are girls. it seems like she acts this way only to me, but not any other guy. i dont know i think i should move on and find someone else??
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (12 January 2006):
Obviously your feelings for this person are strong and that would be the reason you are feeling awkward. Are you scared she wont reciprocate or of rejection? I think you need to get to the root cause of this awkwardness, this block between you and then decide how to proceed from there.
Looking at things positively, you say that she acts unaffected but 'knows you like her'. This is often the case as we all give little clues to how we are feeling even when we are not and she has probably picked up on them. What do you mean nothing is going on? Do you mean she doesnt contact you or that she proceeds as you two would normally? If she is just carrying on as normal then she may try to be masking her own fears and own self-doubt. For all you know she may have written the same post as you to this site! I would advise that you take some time out, order your thoughts and feelings then decide from the best way to communicate them to her.
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