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I like offering oral but it is not my ideal way to spend an evening!? What can I do?

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Question - (10 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2008)
A female United States age 13-15, xZomgbiex writes:

My boyfriend loves it when i give him head, I don't think its horrible but it's not my ideal way to spend an evening ... is there anything i can do to make it more pleasent for both of us?

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (12 March 2008):

Annalisa agony auntYou can get flavoured condoms, cover his penis with tasty choccolate sauce... as I said before.

Also, remember you don't have to swallow!

If you look sexy enough and act like you're enjoying pleasing him, he won't mind if you let him come over himself or inside the flavoured condom.

Hope that helps!

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A female reader, xZomgbiex United States +, writes (12 March 2008):

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xZomgbiex agony auntWell yea we do all of that but its just something he enjoys sometimes its not like, thats all we do. i was just wondering if i could make it more pleasant and not welll just not so icky lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

You could have conversations, watch movies, go out to dinner, talk about schoolwork, and what you want to be when you grow up.

Just a thought. Normally that is what you do as well when you have a relationship with someone.

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (10 March 2008):

Annalisa agony auntSurely you do more with each other than give him head! I mean, don't you go out, have fun together, see movies and play games?

Tell him you need more from a relationship! If you mean you want more sexual fun, let him repay the compliment by fingering you or going down on you!

As for giving him head, it can be made more enjoyable by playing with food... like cream, choccolate sauce, honey...

Remember (and don't be afraid to tell him!) that relationships are about friendship and sharing fun. If all your dates revolve around pleasing him sexually, he's being selfish and you're not really getting to know each other. Be ware of getting stuck in a relationship with a penis!

God bless and good luck!

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