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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I really like my teacher(s). I have always gotten on well with teachers, but with some it is more I don't intense, I have now realisedit is not sexual more motherly. I just don't know what to do, it all started about a year ago.I had sat at the front in my science lessons. I used to chat with my teacher, we would talk about TV shows and what not. Then in March, she told me she was pregnant. I was the first student she had told. I felt so honoured. She told the rest of the class three days later. She was my favourite teacher I spent so much time on my homework just to please her. She also nominated me for an award. I again felt honoured. When the lessons finally came to a close in the summer I brought her a gift. A top for her baby. She gave me a hug and then told me to keep it quiet as we weren't meant to know, but she told me I would be in top set for GCSE tripple science next year (present year now). I felt so close to her I was so sad not to be with her that summer.Now it feels like I almost have an obsession with my Head of Year and Chemistry teacher. I have such a laugh in her lessons.I always laugh. She takes the micky a bit. I did well in the test but I was one mark of an A. I was devastated! Before the next test I stayed after school alot. She spent alot of time tutoring me. I haven't gotten the results yet but. I have formed a bond. She always smiles at me. German was my favourite subject until about two moths ago when a new, challenging, student entered out class. It was and is awful. He completely took the mmicky out of me. Called me abusive names and ridiculed me infront of the rest of the class (admittedly there is only 7 of us). It really made me feel down. I had, had an awful lesson the worst. I was went to find my best friend where we sit in the corridor in the main corridor of the school. I poured out about the whole lesson. I was streaming with tears, and my friend told me I had to see our Head of Year (chemistry teacher), Then she came down the corridor and another friend stopped her ans she came over I explained everything, still streaming with tears. She took me under her wing. We had so many meetings to try and sort the situation out. She was so kind.As well, I complimented my teacher because I liked her top. I would tell anyone if I liked something. Why wouldn't you? My friends say I am a suck-up because I complimented her and because I gave my other techer a gift last year. Do you agree? What should I do about them, or tell them?Now I feel like I am obsessed with her I look at her Facebook all the time, I even look on her husbands profile just to catch a glimps of her. I just don't know what to do I dream about her all the time. But it definatly isn't sexual I know that. I just needed to tell someone and fancied some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the help. it has really helped. I will try to back off. Especially because I don't want to loose this teacher completely because she has helped me so much. You both really helped! I will try just to relax. Thanks so much! x
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reader, -shannie. +, writes (25 March 2011):
well, I have a bestfriend that is in EXACTLY the same situation that you are!she is heavily attached to a young, art teacher at our school.she ensures me that she has no sexual feelings towards her, but like.. she is so 'obsessed'. -my friend (like you) always looks up her facebook profile, and talking to this teacher makes her day/week.but just recently, the other teachers at our school noticed something was wrong, because believe it or not- you honestly aren't allowed to 'like' teachers in this way.. they have been separated, and now my friend is distraught. she finds it hard to come to school and stuff.my advice to you anon, is to NOT let this happen to you..although this teacher may be very important to you; don't let your feelings become out of control, and just keep it relaxed.^hope this helped:)
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