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I like my best friend but don't know if he likes me

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Question - (19 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *rs.david archuleta writes:

Okay. My problem is that I like one of my best guy friends named Larry. I don't know what to do or if he likes me.I mean, me and him talk a lot. and EVERY time we see each other we hug at least once. And sometimes, when I forget to give him a hug, he holds out his arm and blocks me and pulls me in for a hug. And we have a lot in common and when we're together, he is always loud and show offy. He's a real sweet heart and I can just be myself with him. And sometimes when I look at him, he's looking at me. But when I look back, he's looking away from me. What should I do?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntI think you should have some fun with this lifes to short to rush through it, I would suggest play a few games to see how he feels about you basically just be a teenage girl you could tell him a guy asked you out but your not sure what you should do and see what he says. normally i would say dive in but since your close friends i would suggest making this guy do a little leg work for you why because if hes willing to go the extra mile then he really likes you and its not some crush that will fade in a few weeks leaving your friendship in ruins after youve confessed your love for him. so let him kno hey im singlle over her and let him take it from there if he doesnt kno what to do with that then hes to young and imature to make a good bf anyway.

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A female reader, shaz064eva United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2009):

When best friends go out with each other then break up the friend ship falls apart but friends ship can be a good foundation for a good relationship. So if you really like him I think you should tel him straight how you feel, if he doesn't like you, you can more on but try to keep your friendship. He could be uncertain whether you like and doesn't want to get hurt so making things clear could help him decide what to do.

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A female reader, bakaranma United States +, writes (19 December 2009):

bakaranma agony auntOdds are, he likes you, based on that, but the fact he hasn't told you yet could mean that he's scared of what you'll think, OR he could just be really really friendly.

Still, the only way to really know for sure if he likes you is to ask.

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