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writes:hi, im having a problem trying to work out if a boy wants a relationship with me or not. i have known him for about a year and a half now and meet him about once a month. He asked me out once but i rejected him and he has never asked since. now i really like him and dont know what to do. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice im going to tell him how much i think of him now then before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): What you need to do is ....NOW YOU must ask him out and explain why you couldn't go out with him the first time!
No man wants "rejection", so he will never ask you out again
If you want to go out with him...then you must make the first move!
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (22 April 2008):
 This is an easy one if you take your own personal pride out of the equation. You know that he likes you – or did like you – because he’s already asked you out once. I’d say your first step is to establish that he does indeed still like you. His own pride might get in the way a bit here; it’s not nice to be rejected, so be honest. Tell him that you like him and that you’ve had time to think and that perhaps it’ll be good to give it a shot. If he agrees, well, the rest is easy. If he doesn’t, then you’ve got to accept it, regardless. The one key thing to remember is honestly; the more upfront you are, the more likely you are to get an upfront and honest answer back.
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