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51-59,
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writes:I think I have messed up my entire life because I followed my head and not my heart and rejected a man who really loved me, and who I loved, not once but many times. Now I feel cursed, actually. My whole life has gone down the toilet and I am homeless and jobless and in debt. I blame myself for not acknowledging love when I found it. I feel that any happiness I get will be faked and pointless. I feel shallow and mean and rubbish and evil because I had a chance at real love and let it down. Can anyone help me get through this?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 There is no use to rue over missed opportunities. You can cry rivers of tears and it will not bring him back.
Do you want to wallow in your pool of self pity?
Time and tides waits for no man.If you fall down , pick yourself up again.
No one can help you , not even God if you don't want to stand up again.
God help those who help themselves.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (9 February 2008):
It sounds like you are depressed and really should seek medical advice. Your GP can refer you to a suitable therapist and you will be surprised what a difference that can make provided you are completely honest with them.
Do not worry too much about missed opportunities, as life is full of those for most people. Get yourself feeling better and out of depression and you will be surprised at how easy it is to find that special person.
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