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writes: I need help. I'm in love with a girl. She is she my sister's best friend and she has a boyfriend. I know she likes me I think and I know I can't be with her because as I said she's my sister's friend and not forgething the boyfriend, but I can't get her out of my mind. How can I get over her when she comes over to my house every second day and we live in a small town with only two nightclubs so I see her even on a Sat night? What can I do?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 'Time heals all Wounds' goes for the open heart wounds of crushes too.
All you can do is try to find other things to do and give it time.
The rush of emotions that you feel is not based in years of committed reltionship, it is not based in hours and hours of talking and getting to know each other. It is a crush, a big one I give you that, but it is the chemical response put out by your body to signal a potential mate that you're responding to.
Each time you see her the chemical will be released but over time your body will give up and allow you to move on.
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