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51-59,
*unflower10
writes:Hello, I would be grateful for any advice on the advice of starting dating a (Japanese) widow. We live in London, England, and she has been living here 20 years. Her husband died 10 years ago. I am in my late 40s, she is about 5 years older.Many thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Be very respectful and polite. She will probably refuse the first few times. But start off with little things. Like give a flower. Buy her some nice tea. Give her a scarf.
Asians, particularly the Japanese, are very serious about gift giving. They will always feel the obligation to repay you back. She'll repay you with a date!
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Dear Sunflower -you sound like a perfectly charming man. Ask her if she'd like to have dinner. It's that simple!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Depends how well you know her but why dont you get to know her as a friend first and then if things go well ask her out to dinner.
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