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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for close to 3 years now. We are in love, our relationship is practically flawless and we are still very much attracted to each other. However I find one of our guy friends attractive. One thing for sure is that i would not cheat on my boyfriend, and i am confident in saying and sticking to that. When i hang out with this guy alone I feel a very slight sense of attraction between us, but on the whole we both acknowledge that we are just friends. He really is my closest guy friend and i really trust him. Also he and my boyfriend are friends.I keep having this strong urge to just cuddle with him (nothing more), I don't know if doing this would be wrong, if it would send the wrong signal to him or if i should get the idea outta my head altogether. Is that technically cheating? and if I'm so happy with my boyfriend (which i am!) why am i having this urge? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Sometimes we cannot help it , those feelings can come
because of the sexual attractions between the opposite sex.
Some people just ooze sex appeal and being near them can bring out those feelings.
It could be the lack of intimacy between you and your b/f
or your needs are not met by him.
Cuddling your friend could send him the wrong signals.
You can cuddle him in your mind and that is all you can do.
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