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anonymous
writes:I'm a 24 year old male and I have a problem. I keep falling for unavailable women. Generally, I'll fancy a girl. Then, if I learn that she has a boyfriend, I'll fancy her more. But if it turns out she's single, then I grow frustrated and less interested. I am looking for a relationship by the way. So what's going on?
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reader, panties8  +, writes (24 February 2009):
you're not looking at yourself clearly enough. you want what you see. just physical things not mental or emotional. why don't you stop 'looking' for a relationship and just get to know yourself for a few months. you'd be surprised to find out how much you need to know about yourself. think about what you want out of a relationship and why. pay attention to females you interact with. notice the way they speak, or use their hand gestures, or their eye contact with other people or you. women aren't ment to be won, but earned.
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reader, Doctor-CC  +, writes (24 February 2009):
Hey, i know exactly whats going on. you decide to go for women who are taken because its a challenge to see if you can get them. it is more likely you will get a women if she is single and you dont want that, you want a challenge and by finding a woman that is taken, give you a rush to try and i win her heart.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 A girl (or guy) is naturally more desirable when he or she is taken. you might see that someone else enjoys their company so you should too. You figure they're full of desirable traits (or your subconscious does)
Give a single girl a chance. or try something like Eharmony.com to find someone really compatible (haha, commercials really do work )
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