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He's so friendly with this other girl and I'm so jealous about it...

Q.   I don't know how to stop being jealous? My boyfriend who I've been with for a year now keeps flirting with other girls especially this one girl who says that her and him are best friends and tell each other everything and that she knows him more ...

A.   24 February 2009: Hey, he thinks he is doing nothing wrong, by being friendly with this girl, but he doesnt realise how you feel. he doesnt realise that you feel pushed out, second best, hurt. just explain to him how you feel. and if that doesnt work, record him ... (read in full...)

I keep falling for unavailable women!

Q.   I'm a 24 year old male and I have a problem. I keep falling for unavailable women. Generally, I'll fancy a girl. Then, if I learn that she has a boyfriend, I'll fancy her more. But if it turns out she's single, then I grow frustrated and less ...

A.   24 February 2009: Hey, i know exactly whats going on. you decide to go for women who are taken because its a challenge to see if you can get them. it is more likely you will get a women if she is single and you dont want that, you want a challenge and by finding a ... (read in full...)

Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?

Q.   well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...

A.   24 February 2009: You should normally wait 4 days before your period, injection or no injection.... (read in full...)

Can someone help me decipher his actions?

Q.   can you help desipher this guys actions?! I've read about and 'signs he likes you' and stuff.. thi guy.. the facts... *he looks at me alot, i catch him looking at me..and i often have to turn away first.. *if his mates are teasing me, he doesn...

A.   24 February 2009: this happened to me aswell girl. i heard around that a guy thought i was pretty, so being me, i went over to him and asked him if it was true. being with his friends, they laughed and so did he. i walked away and then he text me saying he didnt mean ... (read in full...)

Foreplay is nice but sex is painful!

Q.   I have just started in a new relationship but i have a problem. I dont enjoy sex. I love foreplay but actual intercourse is painful even with lots of lube. I dont enjoy a second of it, it doesnt feel good, i count down the seconds until he is done. ...

A.   24 February 2009: Hey Girl, I Had The Same Experience Before. My Boyfriend Wanted To Have Sex One Night And I Thought Yeah Why Not. He Got An Erection, And He Put Some Lube On, Then He Went To Insert It In Me And It Hurt Like Fuck. I Just Grinned And Bared It. I Then ... (read in full...)

I don't want her man!

Q.   I'm married and have been for seven months. I used to like this one guy. And he cheated on his gf with me (this is not the guy that I am married to.) This happened two years ago. Well, I have been trying to tell her about certain inci...

A.   24 February 2009: Hey Girl, Seems Like It's All Blown Up In Your Life. I Cant Say That I Know Exactly What Is Happening Becuase That Would Be Lying, But I Would Suggest That You Give This Girl And Her Guy Some Space. I Think She Is Trying Not To Believe You Because ... (read in full...)

I live with my b/f and have waited for years for him to get divorced, should I quit?

Q.   HI, My relationship with a man has been going on for 8 yrs, thing is when i met him ,him and I were still married but separated from our spouses, He had his home and I had my own apartment. I was only separated a year and then filed for a no fault ...

A.   22 February 2009: hey girl, i have had the same experience before. We sat down and i told him how his actions were making me feel and he told me about his as well. What i am trying to say is, just give him a little more time, dont nag him so much and see if he does ... (read in full...)

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