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female
age
30-35,
*honababes
writes:My friend is gay. I am not but we have been friends for a while now, well since we were 4 years old. He gets bullied a lot at school for being gay and I don't think that's right. He is changing himself to be straight but I know he is not straight. He has got himself a girlfriend which I know he is not happy about and he changed his appearance because of these bullies. I don't know what to do I just want my gay friend back. :( What should I do ?Many Thanks .....Shona x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): encourage him to search for God. if he is already saved, and is trying to become straight, then that is wonderful, but the most important thing-whether or not he remains homosexual or not, is that he be saved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Tell him no matter what he does, you'll always like him for Him and always be by his side! He's at an age where there's ALOT of confusion about sexuality-more than ever before. Ask him not to 'label' himself. Help put his mind at ease, and tell him to just relax and enjoy 'getting to know' girls. There's nothing wrong with a girl-friend right?
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reader, :BiBi:  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Talk to your friend tell him that it doesn't matter that he is gay, tell him that he shouldn't change for nobody if he's happy being gay support him and defend him from others, tell him to keep his head up and ignore others as they're immature. They need to understand that there's nothing wrong with being gay.
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