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writes: hi i was wondering if its normal to not enjoy kissing at all. i havent had many different guys, but i just get really bored with it very quickly. i dont mind him kissing me other places, but actually making out is so boring to me. is this weird, because i was under the impression that kissing was this amazing thing, and now it seems as though im missing out on something?
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reader, well-help  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 no i'm the same it doesn't do anythign for me, i like being touched but just kissing is really boring don't worry about it i was so nervous about my first kiss but it was horrible it went wrong i didn't like it and i thought oh thats probably just cause its the first time but since this lad wasat my house and we ended up making out alot and he like was holding my face with both hands and proper goign for kissing for me like hoving his toung down my throat and its liek i dont know what to do because i dont like it its just not nice i like kissing without toungs but it doesnt do anythign for me its just all wet and horrible
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reader, Whizzer123 +, writes (4 March 2007):
heya im a 17 year old male and i dont enjoy kissing. i mean i dont mind it but i just find it really boring, i am a great fan of cuddling and kissing diffferent body parts but when a girl sticks her tounge down ur throat it sjust uggh! im not gay, i thought it was just me that had this thing but hey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): i avoided kissing my last bf and didnt realise i was doing it, i was dumped for not being affectionate enough, i assumed i was just not a soppy person, since being with my current bf i cant stop kisssing him and im reeally enjoying it.
iv been kissing boys for 10 yrs and only really enjoying it now, plus it takes 2 to tango, maybe the guys your with are a bit sloppy at it??
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reader, Kallisti  +, writes (10 June 2006):
 I agree completely with the advice by Auntie Emmie. I am a person who doesn't like kissing as well, I do not like to tongue kiss so I just don't. Kissing is not universal. People are attracted to different romantic partners, or have different turn-ons, it's just the same with signs of affection. No matter how much you love that person, you may just simply prefer not to makeout. There is nothing abnormal or wrong about that. There are plenty of other ways to show affection; hug, hold hands, or if even you prefer kissing lightly without a makeout session. Hope I helped.
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reader, autie emmie +, writes (10 June 2006):
well no its not acurrly amazing but its still quite a good thing but dont worry about it not every body is the same as you your unique remember but really dont worry as its practially normal as everybody has their own opinions and each to there own as the saying says.its normal for you to feel this way not everybody enjoys kissing and you never know you might enjoy it more when you find your one true loveall my wishes autie emmie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): That could depend on your age, you don't say how old you are - most young guys are crap at kissing! And if you are just getting out there and making out with random guys it's not surprising you're not turned on. Try meeting someone and developing a deeper relationship before you make out with them - then your kisses will be an expression of your feelings - much more of a turn on than some drunk guy sticking his toungue down your throat...
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reader, sibaan +, writes (10 June 2006):
 that could mean alot of things, maybe youd prefer kissing girls or trying new techniques with guys or getting dirty.
kissing is supposed to be passionate and foot popping...
think about it.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 June 2006):
 This seems to be because there is no feelings for the person.
When you are with somebody who you love, you will notice the difference. Kissing is the nicest thing a couple can do.
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