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writes: I just cant get my ex out of my mind. I seem to spend so much time during the day thinking about him and when I wake he is the first thing I think about, and my heart just aches so much.It has been 4 weeks since I last saw him, and 3 months since we were together. I love him so much, and he doesnt know as Ive never told him. We are not together because he said he doesnt have enough time for a girlfriend and I was not willing to be just someone he sees occassionally. I feel that if he really wanted me he would make time. I think mainly it is because he is not over his ex girlfriend. He is a busy person, but he made time for me when we were first going out. I want him to be happy and have said to him that if its not me that is going to make him happy then thats just how it is, but got no real response. Have i given up too easily? I so desperately want to see him and tell him I love him. I just dont know what to do.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 Write him a letter and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't reply you have your answer and must move on. Give him a time frame to answer by, say two weeks and then if he does not then you know you have to get your life back on track and forget about him. It can be done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): go for it. better to sayit then regret it when time really does not allow you to. who knows how the results will turn out to be? at least you've done something about it and you can rest at ease of knowing that you've done your part no matter what may happen. also it depends on his feelings for you. maybe he's putting aside the relationship because he doesnt want to hurt you by making you wait or something. have a talk with him. best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): just tell him. or you wont be able to stop thinking "what is i told him?"
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