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*kreen23
writes:Ok, after a break of almost two months which she requested we finally broke up (also her choice, i still love her). Anyway 10 days after the break-up i went over to our old place to collect the rest of my stuff and as she lives close-by i decided it may be a good idea to say goodbye face to face. I rang her and she agreed. I went over and i was shocked how she looked and acted. She has lost loads of weight, looks tired and very pale and weak. I tried to make small talk but she found it impossible to make eye contact and seemed on edge. I told her that i'm not angry at her and hoped she would take care of herself. Apart from the break-up there has been a lot of stress in her life lately. Guess i'm wondering if this means she misses me. I still hope that we will get back together.
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reader, skreen23 +, writes (29 June 2009):
skreen23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWas in her locality recently and bumped into her by accident.
We were talking for a while and i suggested we go for a coffee to catch up. We almost got as far as the cafe when she froze and said "i'm not comfortable with this."
I smiled, said ok and walked off. Rang 10 mins later saying "sorry if i freaked you out." and she replies "well you did."
Her tone on the phone was less than friendly.
Found her reactions bizarre as i have hardly seen her since the break and have rarely initiated contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): I think she does miss you .. just give her some time don't leave her for ever .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): She probably does miss you but she seems to be acting a bit edgy towards you like she doesnt want you to be around too much. i sugggest keep talking to her as a friend not loving. i dont want her to seem emotionally vulnerable as she semms to be that way and for you to take advantage of that (im not saying that you would but just in case). it seems that you do indeed love her but give her some space.
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