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writes:I honestly don't have a clue where I stand with him, he speaks to me so often and we have such a good bond. We have so much in common and the conversation flows but then things go wrong. I really like this guy and when we were hanging out he said he really liked me but nothing else was said and then recently the conversations gone dry and its because im being blunt with him for not telling when where i stand and for some reason he's being difficult too. I know its not his fault and I should ask but i'm scared too. Tonight we've spoken about relationships and what we want, its so simualar. But last night he liked something which said its funny how qucikly you are put off somebody. What's going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 I think the both of you are on two different wavelengths here. He said he liked you but did you say it back? You haven't asked him straight out what he wants and if he likes you in a romantic way. He is probably very lost and confused because you are blowing hot and cold with him. Communication is key to a situation like this. So you need to start talking to him and explain your behaviour and why you have been acting the way you have. Ask him where do you stand and does he like you more than a friend. Its the only way to clear up all the confusion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Is he taking you out on dates and are you dating? That's where things start so you are just friends if not. Hanging out is more of a casual thing and not a precurser to a relationship.
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