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*lonelydiva76
writes:Me and my husband separated about two months ago. During that time he's been in a relationship with this young 18 year old. he moved in with her n her brother. He contacted me telling me he want to make our marriage work he said he loved and miss me. He told me he will be home sooner then sooner what the hell do that mean. Why would he come and say that when he ain't ready to leave her yet. He said he don't want to hurt no one feelings, but he hurted me when he cheated and he only known her for two months and me for seven years someone is going to get hurt I told him. He said he know he was being selfish to ask me to wait because if it was him he wouldn't wait but he know for sure he wants to be with me. We met today and he held me so tight and kiss me he kept staring at me. He did try to have sex with me but I didn't. I told him once he make up his mind and if I'm still available then we will see. He was upset! Is he trying to use me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Your hb is using you. He card nothing about your hurt feelings. He left u for his lover. U are too ice and too calm about his cheating. Plse take a firm stand. And stop wasting your life on this loser. Plse value and respect yourself and move on. Treat your hb the way he is treating you and get rid of him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 November 2010):
I think he is trying to use you. I don't see how a man who cheats, moves in with another woman and won't move out again is trying to fix the marriage. Worse still he tried to have sex with you.
This is the behaviour of a man who is trying to use you, not trying to fix his marriage. He either leaves the other women and you go to couples counselling, or you need to file for divorce. Don't allow yourself to be strung along or used.
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