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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:It doesn't matter the job I always end up quitting when people get to know me or when something happens like a tiny misunderstanding that happens to everybody in every job. I get like very frightened and never want to go back. I wish I could just work alone and never have to deal with interpersonal relationships at work. I have colleges degrees but have not had lots of jobs in my life and I've had trouble in most of them. Like people rejecting me for no reason, supervisors verbaly abusing me (and that reminds me of my family wich I've managed to make them respect me now). I've also had supervisors speaking highly of me and people liking me but is more the bad than the good experiences I've had at work. How can I get rid of this fear and stop being so unstable in my jobs?
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (15 January 2008):
 Go for jobs you think you would be good at and try your best at them. Try to take every situation as it comes, without worrying about things going wrong. If something does go wrong, put it down to experience! Keep trying, go back every day and get to know the people you work with.
Things will improve. After all, if your employer is really unhappy with you, he'll fire you. If they don't then you can't be doing so bad.
God bless you and good luck!
Let me know how you get on!
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