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I have strong feelings for a cousin of mine. How do I deal with this?

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Question - (10 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

hey

okay well iv always had a really big family on my dads side, with 100s of cousins etc. me and 4 of my cousins were always really close as we spent most of our life growing up at my nans together. Being the youngest out of us they always looked out for me and stood up for me, but all together we were a group of trouble makers :)

Iv always felt very close too all my cousins esp these 4, but now i feel i love one of them more. i know nothing can happen because of being family etc. but i really do have strong feelings for him now and im not sure what to do, hellp ! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007):

You have the same blood running through your veins. You knew him as a child, you grew up togehter. I don't see how it's possible for you to have feelings for your cousin. I have some good looking cousins and the thought has never crossed my mind and I grew up with them too. Just forget it, it's not right.

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A female reader, Polly Russell-Furse United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2007):

Polly Russell-Furse agony auntHi,

When you say you have strong feelings for your cousin are you talking about sexual feelings or feelings of love? Because if you just really love your cousin then I think this is normal as you all grew up together and you are like brother and sister, not cousins.

It is extremely rare to have a close knit family these days and if it's not sexual feelings, then treasure the relationship you have with him.

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