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I have no bf and I don't want to masturbate...but I want sex so badly! What should I do??

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Question - (30 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid, I want to have sex, I want it really bad! But I have no BF, I don't want to masturbate and I don't want to watch porn. I mean, I want to make love with someone but I have failed to get a BF. Hey, I am female 30 yrs, professional and faithful. Any tips on hooking up with a good man?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI'm going to assume that the desire is for closeness and affection which you CANNOT get through masturbation...

are you on any dating sites?

do you have hobbies that you can attend groups of? (btw board gaming is a great way to meet men as it's a very male heavy hobby but most of the gamers are a bit geeky)

have you ever dated?

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A female reader, JustAGirl.x United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2011):

JustAGirl.x agony auntif you want sex soon, i would say look around on some internet sites for no strings attached sex ( i know that sound so sleazy, but if thats what you want. )

or maybe go to a club/bar? lots of men go to them just to pick up women!

if your that desperate though, i would masturbate! it will relieve a lot of tension and make you feel better, you might not even want sex after you've cum so wont have to go and hook up with a stranger!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011):

Why don't you want to masturbate? There is nothing wrong with masturbating, everybody does it and it is a great way to relieve sexual frustration. If you can't have sex, masturbation is the next best thing. But if it is out of the question for you, I guess you could hire a professional male escort. Do some research on the internet, some of them are very good and discreet.

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A female reader, Eyespy17 United States +, writes (30 July 2011):

Do you not watch porn or masturbate for religious reasons?

If so, maybe look for a partner at your house of worship, or ask your friends who you trust to set you up. Or use a dating site geared towards religion and serious relationships. I've seen an ad for Christian singles, etc.

Good luck!!

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