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rebecka
writes: hi my mate says she has had sex lots of times i have only done it twice but when i talk to her i find my self lying about it. i dont know why i find the urge to lie. Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 you lie probaly because you want to look big in front of your friends but i have to say watch what your lieing about because if words gets round your get a reputation as well as boys trying to use you all the time, but ye you just want to be like your friends and pretend youve had loads when you havent but the fact is its a good thing you have only done it twice.
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reader, DrPsych + ♥, writes (4 August 2006):
 Peer pressure about sex is enormous - sex is every where in the media and people feel obliged to say they are experts when they have no experience. Being inexperienced is not a bad thing - any man who rates your performance in the bedroom on a clipboard is not a good person and not long-term dating material. Your friend is probably not as sexually experienced as she claims, and even if she has then she may not be feeling too good about having slept around. She probably has self esteem issues and feels like she has to brag about her sexual conquests to show how popular she is. They do say that those who are doing it don't have time to talk about it ;-)
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