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writes:what am i supposed to do when i am catching feelings for somone who doesn't want to commit to me yet wait or stay? and i caught him masterbating? Our relationship started out sexual only then it evoloved into more and in confused now i dont want him dealing with no one than me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Maybe (sorry to say this),because your relationship was initialy based on sex,he may be under the belief that because you seperated sex and emotions,that you could easily do the same with someone else,which isnt necessarily so.It seems he hasn`t given you any promises,therefore there`s a given chance he could get involved with someone else eventualy. Either accept it as it is and stay around,or move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Hi There,
The first thing I would advice you to do is talk to him. Good communication is the key to a successful relationship. Explain to him the feelings that you have for him and ask him if he feels the same way. If, infact, he does, then you need to tell him how you feel about his reactions to your relationship and ask him if he is willing to enter a committing, loyal, relationship.
I'm afraid that if he is not then you can either adapt to his relationship or find another.
I'm always happy to offer advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Look, if he won't commit to you, then he won't commit.
Its as simple as that. You can wait a little while longer and hope he will come around, but how long have you been dating already, and how much longer are you prepared to wait?
I understand that you "don't want him dealing with no one than me" but, if he chooses TO "deal with" someone else, there really is not much you can do about it, now is there?
You can try talking this over with him to see if he thinks there is any possibility for a future with you and see what he says, after you let him know what you want from the relationship. But again, if he is uncertain, you will either have to call it quits or hang on to see how things develop.......not a very encouraging prospect, I'd say........the whole thing does not sound terribly promising, in any case......sorry.
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