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writes:i have gone to school with this guy since i can remember. our parents were friends and we were as well. i have had feelings for him that seem to be off and on. i really like him and want us to be close. the problem is that now we are in highschool we have drifted apart and i dont talk to him like i use to. if i see him in the hall we exchange glances and sometimes a nice "hi how are you?" but thats it. i want to regain that friendship without forcing it. how could i do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis question was posted by my daughter. The age is 15, not 36-40.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): You could ring him up and tell him that you miss the old times when you used to hang out - then ask him whether he'd like to hang out again sometime???
He will probably say yes and then if it goes well you could ask him whether he'd like to keep meeting up often...
It would prob be easier to stay friends if you always hung out so perhaps try to go to someof the same things that he does, i.e. the school band, drama rehersals, sports practice, etc. However even if you are not in the same social clique as him that does not mean that you won't be friends. It just means that you will have to try harder to meet up outside of school.
I don't know whether you will become friends again hunny because it is true that people change. :(
But just take things slowly and hopefully you can get back together again. x x x
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