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I have a thing for redheads so how do I ask my g/f to dye her hair red?

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Question - (24 July 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2013)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'll admit it, I've always had a thing for redheads. My current girlfriend (who's an awesome person) is a burnette but dyes her hair more of a lighter black. I think she would look great if she dyed it red, because she has a fair skin tone with freckles, it would probably even look natural.

The thing is how do I ask her to dye it red without her thinking I have some big fetish or something?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (25 July 2013):

TasteofIndia agony auntHow long have you been dating her, and how often does she dye her hair?

If you've been dating for awhile, and your relationship is super comfortable, then before her next appointment just ask, "hey - have you ever thought about going red?". See how she replies. React accordingly. Here are some sample responses:

HER

I've thought about it, but I never have...

YOU

You should try it! I think it'd look really awesome.

Or...

HER

Oh God, I did that once in 8th grade and it looked like I was the victim of a tomato explosion.

YOU

Haha, that sounds crazy. I think you'd look great with red hair! You should try it again.

Or...

HER

No. My brother died at the hands of a red headed strangler and seeing the color infuriates me. If I were a red head, I'd betray the family oath we took swearing to never convert to red hair. HONOR BEFORE GINGER!!

YOU

... the brunette looks good.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

I would say just walk past a wig store and be like 'oww lets have some fun' just find a plausible excuse to go in (you can make up a bogus excuse) and find a nice wig in the colour you like, (and if you really want to push it go in before hand and get the sales person in on it, to boost her as well) and say 'oh this wig would look so nice on you' get her to try it on, and just be honest say how beautiful the colour looks on her and the sales associate too, then when you leave mention it over the day, week and see how it goes. Be like 'ow wow you looked to beautiful as a red head, I thought so the sales girl did too, you should try it' or 'find a famous person who has that hair and say how similar they look and how pretty it is' or maybe say 'my goodness you have such lovely skin and wow those freckles' let her know it turns you on, but be subtle. It will make her think about it. Good Luck

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