A
female
age
41-50,
*ommy with brain tumor
writes:my husband and i have been married for almost 8 yrs and have a 3 yr old daughter, i have been fighting brain cancer for 5 yrs and lost 100 lbs. now he wont hug kiss or touch me, he says he loves me, but all we do is argue. anytime i need some affection he goes straight to sex and says" is that all you think about' ? we have not had sex in 6 months. how. can i get him to understand i just need affection from him. we dont know how long i have left, i may pass on any day, and the last memories i want for my family are not the ones that are being made... so my question is how do i get him to give me affection not pinching or yelling, that i think he belives is affection and hurts me Reply to this Question
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Tell him you need to feel his arms around you and your touch. You don't want sex, you just want him to hold you. Tell him you are afraid of passing on and that when you do, you want to go remembering his arms around you and his loving kisses. I am sure you have to be extremely frustrated. I know I would be.
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