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26-29,
*ahlybear
writes:my social science teacher just got out of uni, so hes really young and hes reeally hot. The other day my friend said that id have sex with anyone for even a can of coke... And this made me cry. A lot. So my teacher came and sat next to me, asking me what was wrong. And then everyone in the class started calling me a whore n fat n stuff so he stood up and started screaming at them to shut up... So they did.. He sat down n said sorry n that what they said isnt true and that i am the most beautiful girl in all his classes... And then school was over. So the next day in his class, he sat next to me cause i was alone and asked me out! Well.... Not really... But he said 'so... What are you doing this weekend??' cause theres this really big festival tonight and then i said id be working n he said that it was a shame i couldnt go to the festival cause he was going n he couldve seen me there... :) but im moving schools and i want to get his email or something!!! How do i do it???!!! Btw im 15 and hes 21
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Tough one. I'm a student teacher myself, and from this perspective, I have to say that I would be really afraid of a relationship with a student - I would be kicked out of the faculty of education at my university were such a relationship discovered .
If you don't want to risk compromising his career, wait until you are no longer in the context of a professional, student-teacher to student relationship. This should be easier since you're moving schools soon.
Then there's the aspect of being a minor... I'm not well informed on that but ... maybe something to look into.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Keeping in touch with a student-teacher--assuming if he's only 21--is possible. However carrying on a romantic relationship with him is illegal and could land him in some serious trouble. Not only is he your teacher but you're a minor. You may want to be in the relationship but all it takes is one person on either his or your bad side to turn him in. Like I said after switching schools, if you want to pursue a friendship, look him up on facebook, or just ask him if he would be interested in keeping in contact. If so, you won't have to look him up, he'll give you his information. I wish you luck!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Sounds like he was comforting you in a difficult situation. It's easy to have a crush when someone takes time to care like that, but you have to understand adults will comfort those who hurt, without intentions of dating or anything else. He's a good guy for yelling at the other kids, but I don't see where he is showing interest in dating or having anything else.
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