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I have a boyfriend but I dream about lesbians?

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Question - (14 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im a 21 year old beautician.

I am in a relationship with this handsome 22 year old guy, who I love so much!

But i have a problem, which people might think is wrong.

I LOVE watching lesbian porn. I tell myself im not a lesbian and I have a boyfriend. But I always seem to watch lesbian porn and I dream about sexual relationship with close girl friends.

Another thing is about 1 year ago, when i wasnt with my boyfriend, I went to a lesbian bar, on my own, and ended up kissing another girl, and even ended up in bed with her, unclothed...

Please can someone help... Am I a lesbian?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

The only reason I know I'm not bi or a lesbian is because I am disgusted by vaginas. I love every other part of women, but when it comes down to the sex part, I find penises intriguing and vaginas just gross.

Hope that helps somehow.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

So would it make me bi?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011):

Hey, if it feels right, just go with it. Don't label it. I don't know if your a lesbian, but who cares? You love your boyfriend, shouldn't that be enough?. If staying with your boyfriend feels right, than stay with your boyfriend. If being with a girl feels right, be with a girl.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011):

If you love your current boyfriend, then should it matter? Even if you are attracted to women, would anything change in your relationship? I have a feeling you're not a lesbian, because I am a straight female who also shares your love for lesbian porn. Fantasies aren't a reality. I think everyone has the right to experiment and find out what they like. I came to the conclusion that I enjoyed watching lesbian porn simply because I could relate to both partners- I could place myself in either position and still find something to relate to. It's entirely natural and I don't think you should let it worry you too much!

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