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I have a bf, but I get depressed as we dont live together, he likes his own space, I live alone and feel very lonely!

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Question - (30 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

When it comes to a Monday, I get to feel really depressed.

I don't live with my boyfriend (mostly his choice) but we do spend quite a lot of time together.

I have lived on my own for over a year. In that time I have never got used to it.

I do have friends and things that I can do in an evening, groups and social events.

I just hate not being part of a family or living with my partner/husband. I feel so terribly lonely.

I think it is unlikely that my boyfriend will wish us to live together for a while, he likes his space.

I am capable of doing things without my partner but I can't seem to overcome this lonely, depressed feeling of living alone. Help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007):

sweetheart i know how u feel. i am currently living alone and no matter how much time you spend with people sometimes just going to bed alone and waking up alone is a depressing thought.

i have found the best way to get through although admittedly sad was to get a pet just so there was another living thing in the house!

if thats not your cup of tea though have you considered taking in a roomate or confiding in your friend how you feel about living alone? i did and now people are always comin over!

i hope this helped. best wishes


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