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writes:When it comes to a Monday, I get to feel really depressed.I don't live with my boyfriend (mostly his choice) but we do spend quite a lot of time together.I have lived on my own for over a year. In that time I have never got used to it.I do have friends and things that I can do in an evening, groups and social events.I just hate not being part of a family or living with my partner/husband. I feel so terribly lonely.I think it is unlikely that my boyfriend will wish us to live together for a while, he likes his space.I am capable of doing things without my partner but I can't seem to overcome this lonely, depressed feeling of living alone. Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2007): I have been in my new relationship for just over 8 months, my boyfriend who I love more than anythingm knows that after a year, if there is no commitment i.e. living together, or engagement, then its curtains. I think all men if they had the chance would love this arrangement, girlfriend when they feel like it, bachelor life most of the time. Dont let them. Dont be so available. Make a life for yourself and dont always be at his beck and call. If he thinks there might be someone else on the scene, watch him then!!!! he will be begging to move in with you. To be honest, I would not move in with a bloke until I have a ring on my finger. Why should you be his domestic slave. Big mistake women who do that,.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): sweetheart i know how u feel. i am currently living alone and no matter how much time you spend with people sometimes just going to bed alone and waking up alone is a depressing thought.
i have found the best way to get through although admittedly sad was to get a pet just so there was another living thing in the house!
if thats not your cup of tea though have you considered taking in a roomate or confiding in your friend how you feel about living alone? i did and now people are always comin over!
i hope this helped. best wishes
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