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writes: hello i really need some help ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now and i really do love him but when i was really drunk i kissed another boy i know i cant blame it on the drink but if i wasnt drunk i know it wouldnt have happend i feel so guilty what should i do ?? tell my boyfriend or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): First, you must answer the question: do you really love your boyfriend? Would you marry him if he asked? If you plan to have a relationship that lasts, then you have to be honest and tell him the truth of what happened. Sometimes we do things unintentionally and regret them later. However, our subconscious mind works all the time, even when you are drunk... my point: you may not realize it now, but perhaps you are not really in love/ you are not meant to be together with your current boyfriend.
My advice is harsh, and I'm sorry if it hurts to read, but please think about it, and please don't get drunk again. You won't be able to have a happy life with any guy if these "oopsie" incidents happen over and over.
Take Care of yourself,
Jennifer
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): In this case I would say not to tell him, It was a mistake and its not like you rhaving a mad passionate affair or anything!.
just be careful and learn your lesson the first time round!!
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