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anonymous
writes: I get unnerved and disturbed by the fact that someone finds me sexually attractive. I start to form bad judgement about the person concerned. I am a single guy 25 yrs old. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 You sound as if you lack confidence and self esteem. Why do you find this so unnerving? Do YOU not see yourself that way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): There is not enough specific information here to really answer your question...I will just take a guess that the attraction is not mutual and the woman in question is too agressive or cheapens herself to attract you and that may be turning you off....completely normal, and if you make a bad judgement about her, then you have to decide if your instincts are telling you something, or if you should wait and give her a little more time by getting to know her as a friend first.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 Did you always feel like this? It is normal for people to find each other attractive but if that is posing a problem for you then you must have some issues with your body? or your past? You need to address these issues before it makes you miserable but are you holding something back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Tell this person that you don't find this person sexually attractive back and that the feeling isn't mutual. If they try and make a move on you warn them off.
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