A
female
age
41-50,
*hemrd
writes:I'm at a loss, my husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for 16 months lately no matter what i do i dont get any affection anymore i have spoken to him about it on many occasions he blames it on the fact that his family wasnt very close and affectionate blah blah blah... the fact is he used to be super affectoinate, i am sick to death of having to initiate everything and he has started treating me like a child here are some examples. the other night i came to bed about half an hour after him he asked me if i had turned off the fan in the lounge, i haddnt so i went to get up and turn it off and he was out the door doing it himself ..im the first to admit im not a perfect wife im pretty relaxed about housework always have been i have put on about 16 kgs when we met but have lost all but 5 of it , our sex life is wanning at a rapid rate mainly i think because i have giving up initiating it. the only affection i get is before he is about to do something to piss me off like he will come and give me a hug then tip cold water on me he thinks its a great joke i do not!!! or will put his arms aroud me then sqeeze me so tight it hurts, and then has the gall to say well i gave you a hug before, anyway long story short i just cant handle the rejection and im starting to resent him for it, i love him so much i dont know where to go from here.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 One thing is certain...you can not let resentment grow. IT will silently destroy your marriage. You should probably talk to your partner and get some counseling. Many people wait too long and the resentment grows out of control. At that point they can not even benefit from professional help. If you've identified an issue, fix it.
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