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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey guys ok so heres my problem - sorry its a complicated one . so like i hadnt had a very happy life . at school i was severly bullied then at my first college i left due to jealousy in drama . so i spent about six months in deep depression and then i applied to another college - far way where i could forget my problems and try to make something of my life . when i started i couldnt of been happier i was confident , happy and cheery but underneath my world was falling apart . i was sexually abused by my uncle and this started eating away at me it became harder to mask over this . At college i met some people who i thought where amazing they liked me and i liked them as my friends . and so basically after the assult happened i confided in two of them and i was so upset at the time . Basically i got sent two nasty messages how basically one of them didnt want to be friends anymore and like its not there problem - true but if it was the other way around i would be there for them so this upset me even more well the next thing that happened was i stopped eating , i was so upset and felt really unwell - dude to suffering from post traumatic stress disorder . i couldnt deal with the stress andd upset that was caused . next thing i knew was that i was in hospital receiving treatment for 6 months - it felt like my dreaam of a happy new life was distroyed . it took along time for me to get back to normal and to get over what happened i reported the incident to the police and later on in the year my uncle died .so i have applied to go back to the college but im dreading seeing my so called old friends - thing is i have done nothing wrong - i just want to make a life for myself and to be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): write them both a letter and tell them what you have told us. try to clear the air before you get there. im a big fan of second chances and you deserve on sweetheart. go for it. mal
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