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*herrybell
writes:ok, i just got back from church camp yesterday! There was this boy, Jared, hes super sexy!hes really nice too! he danced w/ me once too! I really want to be his gf, but hes already got one! I was sad when i was told that! I still want to be friends! I dont no what to talk about either! But, i think it might be a bit awkward cuz he knows i like him! help! what should i do?!?!?!?!
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reader, Cherrybell +, writes (15 November 2009):
Cherrybell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont have a crush on jared anymore!!!!!! Actually i lyk this new boy in my class named wesley!!!! Super cute!!!!! Anyone have advice for me?!?!
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reader, shanz  +, writes (15 November 2009):
i know the feelng this is my story i really loved my crush 2 bits then his mate asked me out i sed no then my mate come up 2 me and asked me y so i sed coz i like connor and then she went and told the one who asked me out and he asked him out 4 me which i didnt want 2 happen he rejected me coz he has a girlfriend but he seemed really flirty with me and his dreamy i"s god but he stil looks at me as he would rather go out with me coz he looks tierd of his gfriend......... what should i do
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reader, Cherrybell +, writes (20 September 2009):
Cherrybell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u everyone for ur help!!!! I do not lyk jared anymore, so yea... Ummm, i actually am not going to be his friend at all!!! I mean we will see eachother @ camp next year, but thats the only place we will be friends!!!!
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reader, Cherrybell +, writes (11 August 2009):
Cherrybell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm soooo happy w/ all these answers!!!!! Thanx sooo much to all of u!!!!!!! I have a problem tho!!!!!!! He has a myspace page (or facebook, i dont remember) he checks that instead of his email!!!! Ive sent him a few messages, but my prob is that my mom womt let me get a myspace/facebook page!!!!!!!! All my other friends have them!!!!!! My mom says " not till ur 17" i dont think its fair!!!!!!!!! Wat should i do?!?!?!?!?!
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reader, Flirting09 +, writes (11 August 2009):
Hi,
I would remain his friend. And if Jared and his gf break up you may have a chance :-)
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reader, Flirting09 +, writes (11 August 2009):
Hi,
I would remain his friend. And if Jared and his gf break up you may have a chance :-)
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reader, Cherrybell +, writes (7 August 2009):
Cherrybell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI must clear one thing up!!! We actually did a formal dance!!! He was teaching me how to waltz!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): wow, this sounds a lot like my story, i have a crush, and i have also danced with him, that's how we met, and i really liked him, because of a situation i cannot disclose, we have ran into each other several times, i'm sooooo shy and so is he, he has asked me if i have a boyfriend a couple of times and i asked him back if he had a girlfriend, his answer was always no, he also suggested that we should go out dancing, but plans were never set, that was about 2 months ago ,today i found out that he does have a girlfriend (have not been dating that long), i was sad but i was not shocked because he is cute and a great guy, not many of those left...lol, i don't know how to feel, and like you, i still do want to be friends with him, again cause he is a great guy, the thing with that is that if you want to keep being friends with him, all the time you're going to have in the back of your mind that you want more than friendship, let's see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): hhmmm im in the same problem i find it helps to try to just forget about it and get away that makes him want you more and then u will get a boyfriend
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reader, Cherrybell +, writes (2 August 2009):
Cherrybell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u guys so far for helping me!!!!!!! The only way to keep in touch w/ him is email, so i think it might work out, but i still would lyk more people to answer!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): I guess you ought to talk to him. If you have already told him you like him then maybe you should go to him and say something along the lines of: 'I don't want to make things difficult for you and your girlfriend, and I know that you know how I felt about you but I really want to be friends despite that. I don't want to make things awkward but could we really try to keep in touch?' I hope that fits your situation and I hope you get to be friends with him xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): donot make friends with him although he has danced with you.you would only get attracted towards even more and would find your self in love with him with no returns.understand ?so nip the emotionns at its bud and look for another super sexy.donot waste your time on him as you would muddle you self at the end.
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reader, LoveDocBruce +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Hello Cherrybell,
Ah, church camp.....those were the days.
However you have yourself in a bit of a pickle. The worst you can do is keep liking him. I would try to find yourself another "super sexy" guy to talk to. There are 6 billion people in the world. There will be another.
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