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writes:Okay, so I think my bf of a year and a half is cheating on me. I have thought this for sometime and even caught him in lies about phone calls and text conversations with other women. I confonted him on this and he told me that I am "perfect" and he would never cheat on me...and if he even thought about it, he would tell me. But the other night I found condoms in one of his drawers, while putting his laundry away. We don't use condoms, so of course I was shocked! A few days has passed and I have very little contact with him...he claims to have been out late with the guys or he fell asleep on the couch early in the afternoon and slept through the night. So I go by his house to drop something off today, while he is not there...and I am curious so I look in the drawer, and see that a condom is missing. I am so confused as to what to do? Do I confront him? I am afraid that if I do, he will just lie to me and tell me he isn't and I am overreacting. Do I just break it off? Or do I just sit back and try to gather more information? HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Girl for 1 he is cheeting on u beacuse he is saying your the perfect one then y is thes outhre girls in your phone and for 2 if that condom was open and it was gon leav with out him knowing chang yo number and every thing beacuse the only women that should be in his phone is his mom. And just to let you know i went trough it to. good luck
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reader, holikdad +, writes (9 June 2009):
Cheaters are liars, and unfortunately there is nothing you can do about that.
Yours is extremely sneaky, that's why he said he would tell you if he was cheating. He was trying to give you piece of mind that he wasn't cheating and that you were seeing things that were not there.
Don't believe him he'll do anything he possibly can to do to conceal his actions and make you feel like your wrong about your suspicions.
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (9 June 2009):
Any idea how long these condoms have been in his drawer? Possible you never noticed before? Are you sure you have a good count the last time you were in his drawers?If you confront him to many times and he isn't guilty of anything, you will be the cause of the relationship souring.If you have trust issue, then clearly you two need to spend more quality time together and bond more.
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