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writes:Heyy,Well my problem is seriously confusingg so bracee yourselff guys ;]i wrote a letter on here ages ago about a boy called Noah, he wouldnt talk to me? Even though i was almost certain i was inlovee with him. Well for six months more he continued to ignore me and even worse, he went out with my ex bestmate. it hurt so bad. i cant lie, everytime i saw them together it was like my heart fell out of my chest. so eventually i decideed thaat i cant waste my life trying to get someone who doesent want me back. I wasnt looking to find love, i was still inlove with Noah (as much as i hated him) but i found it, accidently. i have this thing called imesh? i go on it to get music, andd you can chat aswell, i wasnt really bothered about the chatting, music ftw (: but i went on this boys profile (lets call him, Panda) and panda was extreamly fit but i wasnt like in love with him or anything? i just thought, damn :L then i got talking to him, we had so much in common !! his brother was born on the same day as mine? he loved all the same things i did? it was unbelieveable!! then he became like my best mate, he told me about the girl he was so inlove with and how she broke his heart, and i spoke about Noah. We just connected. then we started liking each other. Then Noah starts talking to me? saying he misses me, showing me songs he wrote for me. it was so compliated, my brain hurts thinking about it. after about four months of arguing with Noah, falling in love with Panda and with Noah, i made so many mitakes. Then Panda wanted to meet up. Which was dodge right? guy off the internet? but me being me, i did it anyway, and it was perfect. thaats the day i trully feel inlove with panda, there we was standing in the rain, make up donw my face, hair frizzy andd he still kissed me on the head and said i was perfect 3 then i knew who i wanted to be with, him. so i told Noah, i lost my best mate, Noah andd noahs mate all because of it. but i really didnt care, i loved panda so much. and and he lived far away but still i'd do anything for him andd he loved me back. That day Panda asked me out and i said yes, so we were boyfirend and girlfirend now, andd he had sex buti hadnt. but i wanted to. so i saidd i wanted to, andd obviouslyy he was chuffed bout thaat ;] that night i had a dream. it was magical, we were just about to do it, and as i got down to his pants, i didnt find a penis. so i spoke to him on the phone and he was like laughing and jokingaround, but still i really felt like thaat dream meant something. Later that night, he rang me up crying. saying hes sorry,he loves me and and wants to be with me but he cant?andd i was really hurt that he chucked me and wouldnt give me a reason. After three days of crying and non talking he tells me that hes not a he. He is a she. andd i have always been comftable with my sexuality, and now i dont know what to do? my bofriend is a girlfriend? i still love him/ her so much, i wonna be with him, but i just dont know? any advise? please be nice :] xxx
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Hon, if you truly love Panda go for it. But, take things slow. Don't rush. Tell Panda how you feel and you guys can go from there. Find out more each other, back up a little-start over and take time to really think about this...a good friend of mine became a man 2yrs ago and it took some getting used to (especially when some of my girl friends started falling for him :p). Dating was tough. So here are some tips: be honest. If you're curious about some things, ask him and if Panda doesn't want to answer, be patient. Don't rush into sex or sexual feelings. Best wishes!
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reader, cheerwhore23  +, writes (17 October 2010):
If u love him/her be with him/her. That's that. Who cares what everyone else thinks . As long as your happy:)
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reader, LavanderGirl  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 awwwwwwww.......... that's sooooo cute!? I think your soooo lucky?! ^_^
A GIRLFRIEND!!!???
If your sure and you have feeling for her, then go for it!!!!
You should tell, her. ^-^
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