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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I just started dating a guy 2 weeks ago when he tried to have sex with me. I told him no but he did not stop. I thought it was too early. Now he is mad at me for not having sex with him. Am I at fault or is he. Reply to this Question
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reader, sixth sense +, writes (29 June 2007):
He should respect your choice. That is your body and you must choose to share it. It is wrong to try to control someone else. He should respect you. I think he is an immature person that is an a hole.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Good grief! This guy is a real jerk for getting mad at you for saying no, you were smart, you just weeded out a boy who does not like you for you, he wants to have sex and that is it, you don't need to be anyone's sex slave, you deserve a realtionship with someone who wants to get to know you and to care about YOU, ditch this looser and don't give him the time of day....yuck! My guess is he secretly respects you for turning him down, his ego just took a blow because he thinks it his duty in the world to seduce all women that cross his path....that is in no way your fault or your problem.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Hi babe, there is no chance it is your fault AT ALL. you said no, and thats it. leave him. he is NOT worth it. i cant stress enough what you could be getting yourself into.. hes angry because u wont have sex.. he is NOT worth ur time. mail me if u want to talk babe x x x x xx
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (29 June 2007):
Hi babe, there is no chance it is your fault AT ALL. you said no, and thats it. leave him. he is NOT worth it. i cant stress enough what you could be getting yourself into.. hes angry because u wont have sex.. he is NOT worth ur time. mail me if u want to talk babe x x x x xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): No you are not at fault i really admire you for your spirit you should stand up for what you believe and he should respect that and you are right to wait and if he is unhappy then to bad for him .Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't want to respect you for that then send him packing his not worth your time you can do way betterBest of luck...
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 you are not at fault in any way! he's the horny little brat that needs to grow up in fact I think your desinion was pretty smart
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