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writes:I feel i have nothing to live for, i am so bored, i have been trying to loose weight for the past few weeks for an event next week where i'm going to see the guy i like but dont know him yet so my friend said she would introduce us, but i cant go to the event anymore because i forgot i was babysitting that night, so i tried to get out of it and suggested another sitter that i had found but she said no, so im a bit disappointed as i wont get to meet him, plus this is a bit event everyone is going except me who has to babysit and i really want to meet this guy. although there is a village fair a few days after so i may get to meet him there but i had my outfit planned for the event and everything and i was going to look gorgeous and now when i meet him i will look not as good and i dont know how to make myself feel better i feel theres no point dieting anymore now im not going to the event arrggg!!! sorry and thank you if you reply! Reply to this Question
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reader, scorpio123  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Hey there,
I think you're being too hard on yourself huny, dieting and planning outfits and you said "now when I meet him I wil not look as good" ,
It doesn't matter that you're not all dressed up or maybe a pound or too lighter.
If this man is going to like you, he will, if he's not going to, he won't.
I think you just need to relax, maybe you'll meet him at that fair you talked about! :)
And as for the dieting, not all men are into stick thin girls, most of the fella's I'm friends with say they actually prefer girls to NOT be too thin ;)
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Well, no one is making you diet, it your choice and your choice only.
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