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female
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36-40,
*ayley Stevens
writes:I have just broke up with my partner 16 months, we were engaged and since the 12 months mark i have been more unhappy every month, finding faults about him I cannot live with any more. He is a lovely person with good intentions but were just not compatible. Today I finnally decided to move out of his house and break up with him. He is very distraught and upset but at the same time supportive he has made no atempt to hold me their or keep me but menchioned we shoudl start from scractch (give it another go) however I told him no and I dont love him any more. I was sraight with him on my feelings and we will remain friends for as long as he likes but i just feel so guilty for hurting him, like i said he is so lovely but were just not right for eachother. How can I deal with this guilt and pain I feel for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): dear lady,
first of all, fights are normal in realtionships. It is result of expectations, possesiveness, rights, duties, and complex set of parameters that defines the relationships.
it is healthy up to a level.
So, never expect that relationship are fairy tale. wounds are at both side.
time will heal them up. nest time be more genuine. but, ideal man are difficult to find.so you need to accept the package and same is true for your partner also. love his weakness is best formula to live with any one
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Honey,its normal you feel this way. You did break his heart. Let some time pass.It's not easy. Let him find his own path and find yours. You need to move on with your life. At first,he might not agree to see you.It will be too painful for him.
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