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41-50,
anonymous
writes:is there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have one.younger then me or older then me.and there is no one suitable.may be i was always meant to be single. because i am fat ,short,ugly,i don,t know how to make friends i am shy around guys and scared of any thing sexual eg kiss from a guy would scare life out of me that i would run away.
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reader, Neferterie  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 wow, this does seem like a bit of a problem. And first things first:Self image. Women always seem to degrade themselves "I'm to fat, I'm to tall etc." But yet look at how many fat, ugly, tall men are married. What you need to do is start off by changing your self image, go out and buy a cute outfit that you think you look good in. Make a list of things about you that you like, ex: "My eye colour is beautiful" or "I love my laugh" . dont think about the negatives at all.Remember: *A man will always love you for who you are on the inside, and those little things that he'll notice*okay going on...It's totally natural for a person to be afraid of the opposite sex. Since you haven't dated before you're like a teenager in this field. Get some of your girl friends and go out, go places you enjoy, the parks, or museums, where ever. Because the men there will enjoy them to and that would be the starting base of a relationship. Dont go for the cutest guy or someone who's dressed up very much, go for the laid back one. Comment on something..ex:"Wow look at the texture on that painting" (if he's looking at one) or "Isn't that flower beautiful? Wow a piece of heaven on earth." This leaves it open for a conversation.I'm sorry that I went on so much, could've gone on more!Send me a message if you want some more help.And dont worry you'll be fine.
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