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*on_Cullen
writes:I split up with my girl about 4 months ago. I miss her like crazy. It was on the cards, we just moved in together and drifted apart. I took her for granted and in the end she had enough. A week after we split she got together with her friend. She felt she had given everything and her patience had ran out and she needed a change. I dont blame her for this as i feel it has improved me as a person and made me reflect on the stupid things i did but i just cant let go, she is my special girl and i want to get her back soo bad. How do u make someone love u again when u dont see them and tried to stop all contact and is it fair seeing as she has a new man now? I feel if we got another chance it would work and be great...
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reader, Jon_Cullen +, writes (3 December 2007):
Jon_Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnot sure really a second chance... i replied her mail with a brief reply, but not then recieved anything back which was made me feel worse. so i think i am going to write her a letter and just lay it on the line.... what do people think.....
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reader, Jon_Cullen +, writes (26 November 2007):
Jon_Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionramdomly out of the blue i got a very 'friendly email' from her.
telling me what she has been upto and saying she misses talking to me, but i am 100% sure it is just i miss talking to u and want u as a friend... (as i know her and i know she is still with the replacement!)
what do i do? do i reply and just be friendly, or is that going to set me back seeing as i still miss her!...
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reader, Jon_Cullen +, writes (21 November 2007):
Jon_Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionas much as i would love to believe answer two.. surely answer one is the truth....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): im in the same situation. My ex broke up with me because i always caused arguments about tiny little things. I was just so paranoid she would leave me. She told me she couldnt handle it anymore and we broke up and ive been trying to win her back since. I think nothing should come between love, so if you love her, dont let someone else get in the way. Remember, she fell in love with you before so she can again. Just show her you are still that person she fell in love with. Things may seem hard but they can get better and when you get her back it will all be worth it. And remember, these words are used alot but when you use them, use them from the heart "Im sorry" and "I love you" Good luck mate.
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