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writes:I'm not going to explain the situation as it's not really relevant to my question! But i'm going through a tough time at the moment and feel i need school councelling, it has been recommended to me by a few friends and i am beginning to consider it! I was just wondering how i go about it, i mean...i don't even know if there is a councellor at our school - But i can get the answer to that easily enough! I just need to hear from others who have had councelling at school before, i'm scared incase other pupils find out! I'd have to move schools if that happened...i couldn't bare it! I need to know if they take you out of lessons, because that could be a big giveaway and also how do they help you through your problems, is it just talking? Please help, i'm a little nervous about it xx All will be appreciated xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): If you want to get it off your chest then feel free to mail me. I will give you my honest opinion and maybe put the whole thing into prospective for you. But that is entirely up to you.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice people! What i didn't mention is that i don't want my parents to know about it - it isn't an issue at home but i'm just ashamed of the mess i've got into and would prefer my parents not to know! The person who i confide in, will keep it conidential...right? I really hope so...
I know some of you wanna know the situation but i just don't think anyone will understand my problem, it's a complicated mess!
Thank you for all your comments though - they're very helpful to me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Have a quiet word with your form tutor, they will be able to point you in the right direction. Point out that you dont want others to know about it and i am sure they will keep it quiet. Why do you need counselling? If you went along to your doctors and explained to them they can also put you in touch with a counsellor who wouldnt have any contact with the school and maybe a better choice.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): hi. Take my advise, u shuldnt care about wat others thnk. If u need the help, ask one of ur teachers how u can get a school counceller, then, just go. If u need the help, go and get it. U r the only one that matters, not anyone else. Also, councelling is jst tlkin bhut if u say something thats realli serious the counceller may hav to tell. Last of all, if its a girl thing, then confide in ur mum, she shuld no all the rite thngs to say...or maybe anouther female relative? Wel hope this helpedxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Personally, I think the situation IS relevant to the question. There may be other ways around this problem of yours, whatever it is, other than conselling but unless we know what it is we can't give a full answer to the question!
Phil
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