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writes:Ok right now I have somewhat of a problem on my hands. So I'm going out with this girl (we'll call her Karli) ok so I'm going out with this girl Karli and where kind of serious we say we love each other and stuff. But I also like this other girl (we'll call her Kennedy) I just really don't know what to do. I want to go out with Kennedy but I don't want to hurt Karli... I also feel that if I break up with Karli i will regret my choice for a long time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): We make choices right through our lives and who is to say whether they are the right or the wrong ones. You are so young, so stop worrying and just get on with life. You will probably go out with loads of girls before you finally settle down with one, but not at your age. Just remember, these are human beings, so dont be cruel with them and do their heads in. If you want to go out with the other girl then finish with your current gf first, and do it as easily and less hurtful as possible. Not easy, i know but never two time her.
take care
xx
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reader, Jamescalvino8 +, writes (1 November 2007):
Jamescalvino8 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys/girls so much. I told her and she really felt ok about thanks to your guys help. Peaches83 thanks a whole bunch! I thought yours was the best and it realyl helped me deside what I would do. -James
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): aww sweet heart i've been in this situation plenty of times tell this karli look we are great together but i really believe we should just be friends she'll understand if she's really in love with you but leave it two or three days until youstart with kennedy you need time to revive if thts wat you call it lol
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Taking into account your age i wouldnt worry to much. I know that people from the age of 10 can say they are in love and swear by it. However you are young and many girls will come through your life. If at this moment in time you have feelings for two girls decied which is the most strongest and then go from there.
Hurt is a part of life and we all feel it one way or another and we also deal with it.
The saying plenty more fish in the sea says it all. If you leave Karli then she will find someone else and get on with her life. You never knowif you will make the right choice untill you have made a choice that at the time you feel happy with.
good luck
Peaches
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (1 November 2007):
 you have got no option here but to hurt one of them, unfortunately its always the way, you have to choose one, so ultimately you will have to let one go. Don't think about seeing them both because this is two timing, and this is not a good road to go down. the best thing you can do is make your choice, pick the girl you know in your heart of hearts you want to be with, then tell the other its over, job done!!
Good luck
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